How to make Your Man happy - Part 2

When Husband Goes to Work.

Ladies how do you send your man off to work? I am a Nigerian so I know that many ladies do send their man of to work by just saying goodbye have a great day. Of course he is going to have a great day, the starting of a great day for a man depends on how his woman starts his morning for him.

When he wakes up in the morning and tells you he is off to work, give him a goodbye kiss and tell him you don't want to let him go. Also tell him the house will be lonely without him. You should let him know you are going to miss him and wishes he could come back soon, make him feel like you really love him and can't do without him, some hugs too will do.

You should also plant some love cards in his bag maybe when he gets to work and sees the love cards you put in his bag am sure that would remember you and smile.

Try to call your man and ask if he arrived at his work place safely.

Call your man occasionally to check on him. let him know you miss him. Pray for him to succeed in his business, pray for more customers and clients. Ask if he has had anything to eat for lunch

Be romantic with him when you call him at work so as to help relieve his stress instead of adding to it. Remind him that you love him and let him know that his well-being is more important to you than money

Learn To be a Romantic wife or Girlfriend.

Your man will always come back from work tired and stressed out. Here are a couple of things you can do to cheer him up;

Lend a helping hand with whatever he comes back home with such as his tools, briefcase or bag

Embrace him, hug and kiss him when welcoming him, do not be shy about his source of livelihood when welcoming him even if he is a mechanic

Try to always make sure food is ready before he returns and that you have set the table or wherever you guys eat.

Take an interest in his day by asking how his day went. Try to always encourage him and if you can, tell some jokes.


Never Spy on Your Man.

Most ladies generally have it as a hobby to spy on their man, you always want to know if he is cheating on you. For how long are you going to keep doing that because this never ends well for any relationship. 

You don't want him to have his own freedom or to be able to breath around the house. You don't wanna loose your man by spying on him. Most times, you don't trust your man because you don't trust yourself. 

Trust is the basic foundation of any relationship. If you cannot trust your man then you should not be together. Learn to trust your partner and stop allowing yourself to be too scared to lose him.

If you thing his attention is beginning to stray from you, you should try to make use of some of the tips I have listed above rather than spying.

You should also find a way to fix some of your shortcomings at home or in bed. Try being more romantic instead of spying. Surprise him every once in a while to show how much you believe in your relationship.

Shoulder some responsibilities once in a while so that he values you not just as a lover but also a beneficial partner. One way you can do that is to surprise him with a candle lit dinner outing or a surprise birthday party that you paid for. Whenever you go to the market and you see something that will look really cool on your man, buy it for him if you can.

All this things really matters to men too and trust me if u continue like this you won't have to worry about him leaving you or having another woman in his life.

How to show him love when he is far away from you.

It's not only when he is around you, you can show him love, call him in the morning to check on him, call him during the day time to ask how his day is and if he had something to eat at that time, call him at night too to see if he is fine or not, try to understand his present situations and learn to adapt to any situation you guys find yourself. Know when he is in a good mood or not, try to figure out if he is hiding something from you by asking him in a polite way, try to be caring and played mature always around him. Be understanding and reasonable always. Tell him you miss him and the house feels lonely without him am sure even if he is with another woman his conscience won't allow him because he is going to feel he isn't doing the right thing to you. And am sure he is going to change for the better. 


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